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Cognitive,
Psychosocial, Moral and Faith Development This summary
handout is intended to be used as a guide in a twofold sense. First, this developmental
structure and mapping can be useful in gaining qreater awareness, appreciation,
and understanding of how you have functioned in the past, how you operate in the
present, and what is available for you in terms of your growth in the future.
Most importantly, this framework can provide helpful insights and hypotheses concerning
exactly at what stage you became stuck or fixated as well as what and how the
next constructive step, task and direction can be now to get unstuck and adaptively
move forward. Second, this developmental mapping can be most
illuminating when applied to other people in your life, in addition to our society
as a whole and looking at other cultures. You can gain broadened awareness, appreciation,
and understanding for significant family members, work associates, friends, and
acquaintances. Thereafter, you can make much more enlightened choices in those
relationships and involvements. Erik H. Erikson in Identity:
Youth and Crisis (1968) paraphrased Marie Jahodas definition of a healthy
personality as one who . . .actively masters his environment, shows
a certain unity of personality, and is able to perceive the world and himself
correctly.... The hope of this offering is that it truly serves you in your
continued healthy development, transformation, evolution, ascension, individuation,
and contribution.
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL
(Jean Plaget) | PSYCHOSOCIAL
(Erik W. Ericson) | MORAL
(Lawrence Kohlberg) | FAITH
(James W. Fowler) |
| Stage
1: SENSORIMOTOR (Birth - 2 years) Infant discriminates
him or herself from objects; beccres aware of relationships between own actions
and their effects on the environment and so can act intentionally; makes interesting
events last longer; learns object permanence (i.e., objects continue to exist
enven though no longer visible). | Stage1: TRUST
VERSUS MISTRUST (Birth-l year) Significant social relations
are principally with mother or mother substitute. Basic strength is hope. Amount
of trust depends on the quality of the mater nal relationship. An unfavorable
outcome is withdrawal, autistic isolation, abandonrnent, "being left",
"being empty" and basic mistrust. A favorable outcome is mutual recognition,
continuity of care providers, psychosocial strength, basic trustworthiness and
trusting oneself (that later becomes the capacity for faith). Stage
2: AUTONOMY VERSUS DOUBT / SHAME (1 - 2 years) Significant
social relations are with parents. Basic strength is will. Crisis revolves around
will to be oneself vs. self-doubt; self-certainty vs. sciousness. An unfavorable
outcome comes from compulsion, loss of self-control and of parental overcontrol
producing a lasting propensity for doubt, shame and meek compliance. A favorable
outcome comes from parents living their dignity as autonomous beings, producing
a sense of self-control, and autonomy (i.e. "I am what I can will freely.") |
Level 1: PREMORAL or PRECONVENTIONAL Stage 1: PUNISHMENT AND OBEDIENCE ORIENTATION (Birth
- 7 years) Actions are evaluated in terms of whether they avoid punishment.
One acts out of fear of punishment; (e.g., obeys rules to avoid punishment; breaks
rules and gets physical pain inflicted by authority figures). |
PRESTAGE: PRIMAL FAITH or UNDIFFERENTIATED FAITH (Infancy, Birth - 3 years) A
pre-language disposition of trust forms in the mutuality of one's relationships
with parents and others to offset the anxiety that results from separations that
occur during infancy. The danger or deficiency is a failure of mutuality producing
either excessive narcissism or isolation. |
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL | PSYCHOSOCIAL |
MORAL | FAITH |
|
Stage 2: PREOPERATIONAL (2-7 years) Child
uses language and can represent objects by images and words; is still egocentric,
the world revolves around the infant and he or she has difficulty taking the viewpoint
of others; classifies objects by single salient feature: if A is like B in one
respect, must be like B in other respects; toward the end of this stage begins
to use numbers and develop conservation concepts (e.g., the amount (mass) of a
substance is not changed when the shape is changed or when it is divided into
parts; the total weight of a set of objects will remain the same no matter how
they are packaged together; and liquids do not change in amount when they are
poured from a container of one shape to that of another). |
Stage 3: INITIATIVE VERSUS GUILT (3 - 5 yrs.) Significant social relations
are one's basic family. Basic strength is purpose. Crisis revolves around anticipation
of roles vs. role inhibition; role experimentation vs. role fixation. An unfavorable
outcome inhibition, a lack of initiative, purposelessness and lack of conscience.
A favorable outcome is learning purpose and direction, an ability to initiate
one's own activities and a conscience. | (continued)
Level 1: PREMORAL or PRECONVENTIONAL Stage 1: PUNISHMENT AND OBEDIENCE ORIENTATION (Birth
- 7 years) | Stage 1: INTUITIVE- PROJECTIVE FAITh
(3 - 7 years) First self-awareness and awareness of sex
and death. Fantasy-filled, imitative phase. Imagination, stimulated by stories,
gestures, and symbols, and not yet controlled by logical thinking, combines with
perception and feelings to create long-lasting images that represent both the
projective and threatening powers surrounding one's life. |
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL | PSYCHOSOCIAL
| MORAL | FAITH
|
| Stage 3: CONCRETE OPERATIONAL (7
- 12 years) Child becomes capable of logical thought; achieves
conservation concepts in this order: number (age 6), mass (age 7), weight (age
9); can classify objects, order them in a series along a dimension (such as size),
and understand relational terms (A is longer than B). Children are using abstract
terms only in relation to concrete objects, and not in purely symbolic
terms. | Stage 4: INDUSTRY VERSUS INFERIORITY (6
- 12 years, puberty) Significant social relations are one's
neighborhood and school. Basic strength is competence. Crisis revolves around
task identification vs. sense of futility; apprenticeship vs. work paralysis.
An unfavorable outcome is inertia, an estrangenent from oneself and from tasks,
and a sense of inferiority. A favorable outcome is competence in intellectual,
social, and physical skills; a sense of being able to make things and make them
well, a sense of industry. | Level I:
PREMORAL or PRECONVENTTIONAL Stage 2: NAIVE INSTRUMENTAL HEDONISM (7 - 11
years) Actions are evaluated in terms of whether they lead
to rewards. One tends to conform to obtain rewards and to have favors returned.
In this stage the person concentrates on making a "good deal." |
Stage 2: MYTHIC - LITERAL FAITH (7 years and beyond) The
person begins to take on for him- or herself the stories, beliefs, and observances
that symbolize belonging to his or her community. Story becomes the major way
of giving unity and value to experiences. He or she composes a world base on reciprocal
fairness and on immanent justice founded on reciprocity. The developing ability
to think logically helps one order the world with categories of casuality,
space and time; to enter into perspectives of others; and to capture life meanings
in stories. |
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL | PSYCHOSOCIAL
| MORAL |
FAITH |
| Stage 4: FORMAL OPERATIONS (12
years and beyond) The individual can think in abstract terms,
follow logical propositions, and reason by hypothesis; isolates the elements of
a problem and systematically explores all possible solutions; becanes concerned
with the hypothetical, the future, and ideological problems. The essence of this
stage of thought is considering all the possibilities, working out the consequences
for each hypothesis, and confirming or denying these consequences. This ability
to conceive of possibilities beyond what is present in realityto think of
alternatives to the way things arepermeates this stage and is tied in with
the tendency to be concerned with metaphysical and ideological problems and to
question the way in which the world is run. | Stage
5: IDENTITY VERSUS CONFUSION (12 - 18 years, adolescence) Significant
social relations are with one's peer groups and out-groups as well as models of
leadership. Basic strength is fidelity / loyalty. The adolescent looks most fervently
for people and ideas to have faith in. The choice of occupation takes on great
importance. An unfavorable outcate is repudiation and identity confusion, possibly
joining chronic hopelessness, delinquent and "borderline" episodes.
A favorable outcome is an integrated image of oneself as a unique person, to arrive
at a definition of one' s identity. | Level II:CONVENTIONAL
ROLE-CONFORMITY Stage 3: "GCOD BOY" MORALITY OF MAINTAINING GOOD
RELATIONS, APPROVAL OF OTHERS (11 years and beyond) At
this stage one seeks approval by being "nice" Fknphasis is on the
importance of conforming to the expectations of those who are close to us. Level
II: CONVENTIONAL ROLE-CONFORMITY Stage 4: AUTHORITY- MAINTAINING MORALITY (13
years and beyond) One continues to seek approval, now expanding
to include "doing one's duty," showing respect for authority, and conforming
to the social order in which one is raised. At this stage, reasoning stresses
laws, social duties and conscience. * (Many individuals
never progress beyond Level II, Stage 4. Only those who have achieved the later
stages of formal operations thought are capable of the kind of abstract thinking
necessary for postconven- tional rrorality at Level III, Stages 5 and 6, according
to Kohlberg.) | Stage 3: SYNTHETIC- CONVENTIONAL
FAITH (12 years and beyond, adolescence) The person's
experience of the world now extends beyond the 'family into school, work, peers,
media,etc This is a "conformist" stage in that the person is acutely
tuned into the expectations and judgrrents of significant others. New cognitive
abilities make mutual perspective-taking possible and require one to integrate
diverse self images into a coherent identity. A personal and largely unaware,
unreflective ideology and synthesis of beliefs and values evolves to support identity
and to unite one in emotional solidity with others. |
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL | PSYCHOSOCIAL
| MORAL | FAITH
|
| (Continued) Stage 4: FORMAL
OPERATIONS (12 years and beyond) * (Research with children
of different ages and backgrounds supports Piaget's observations of the sequences
in cognitive development. Yet, the ages at which children reach the different
levels vary considerably, depending on many factors. A very bright 10-year-old
child may be at stage 4 (i.e., skillful at systematically analyzing a problem
and testing hypotheses) whereas some adults never achieve formal operational thinking.) |
Stage 6: INTIMACY VERSUS ISOLATION (19 - 35 years, early
adulthood) Significant social relations are partners in
friendship, sex, cornpetition, and cooperation. Basic strength is love. An unfavorable
outcorre is exclusivity, distantiation (the readiness to repudiate, isolate, and
even destroy those forces and people whose essence seems dangerous to one's own),
estrangement and isolation (the incapacity to take chances with one's identity
by sharing true intimacy). A favorable outcoue is learning the ability to form
close and lasting relationships; to make career commitments. | Level
III: POSTCON VENT IONAL MORALITY: MORALITY OF SELF- ACCEPTED MORAL PRINCIPLES Stage
5: MORALITY OF CONTRACT, OF INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS, AND OF DEMOCRATICALLY ACCEPTED
LAW (15 years and beyond) The individual recognizes that
most values and rights are relative, but some, such as life and liberty, should
be upheld in any society. In this stage the person conforms to maintain the respect
of the impartial spectator judging in terms of community welfare. |
Stage 4: INDIVIDIJATIVE REFLECTIVE FAITH (19 years and
beyond, young adulthood, although for a significant group it emerges only in the
mid- thirties or fourties) The self now claims an identity
no longer defined by the composite of one's roles or meanings to others. This
new identity composes a meaning frame conscious of its own boundaries and inner
connections and aware of itself as a "world view." This is a "demythologizing"
stage. Critical reflections upon one's beliefs and values, understanding of the
self and others as part of a social systern, and the assumption of responsibility
for making choices of ideology and lifestyle open the way for commitments in relationships
and vocation. | COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL
| PSYCHOSOCIAL | MORAL
| FAITH |
| (Continued)
Stage 4: FORMAL OPERATIONS (12 years and beyond) | Stage
7: GENERATIVITY VERSUS SELF-ABSORPTION (35 - 50 years, middle adulthood) Significant
social relations are divided labor and shared household. Basic strength is care.
An unfavorable outcome is rejectivity and a regression to an obsessive need for
psuedo-intimacy, self-indulgence and self-asorption, often with a pervading sense
of stagnation, boredom, and interpersonal impoverishment. A favorable outcome
is genuine concern for establishing and guiding family, society, and future generations. |
Level III: POSTCON VENT IONAL MORALITY: MORALITY OF SELF- ACCEPTED
MORAL PRINCIPLES Stage 6: MORALITY OF INDIVIDUAL PRINCIPLES OF CONSCIENCE (16
years and beyond) This stage requires formulating abstract
ethical principles and conforming to them to avoid self-condemnation. Herein,
reasoning focuses exclusively on universal moral principles. (Kohlberg
reports that less than 10 percent of his subjects over age 16 show the kind of
"clear principled" thinking characteristic of stage 6 thinking.) |
Stage 5: CONJUNCTIVE FAITH (35 years and beyond, mid-life) This
stage is a new reclaiming and reworking of one's past and opening to the voices
of one's "deeper self." Alive to paradox and the truth in apparent contradictions,
this stage strives to unify opposites in mind and experience. This individual
lives and acts between an untransformed world and a transforming vision and loyalities.
The embrace of polarities in one's life, an alertness to paradox, and the need
for multiple interpretations of reality mark this stage. Symbol and story, metaphor
and myth (from one's own traditions and others') are newly appreciated as vehicles
for grasping truth. |
COGNITIVE-INTELLECTUAL | PSYCHOSOCIAL |
MORAL | FAITH |
|
(Continued) Stage 4: FORMAL OPERATIONS (12 years
and beyond) | Stage 8: INTEGRITY VERSUS DESPAIR
(50 years and beyond, the aging years) Significant social
relations are "mankind" and "my kind". The basic strength
is wisdom. An unfavorable outcome is disdain--a reaction to * feeling (and seeing
others) in an increasing state of being finished, confused, helpless, hopeless,
and dogmatic. Such a despair is often hidden behind a show of disgust, a misanthropy,
or a chronic contemptuous displeasure with particular institutions and particular
people, ultimately only signifying the individual's contempt of him- or herself.
A favorable outcome is integrity (a sense of coherance and wholeness at supreme
risk of loss of linkages) a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction with one's life,
and a willingness to face death. | (Continued) LEVEL
III: P0STCONVENTIONAL MORALITY: MORALITY OF SELF-ACCEPTED MORAL PRINCIPLES Stage
6: MORALITY OF INDIVIDUAL PRINCIPLES OF CONSCIENCE (16 years and beyond) *(John
Snarey, Ph.D. examined 7 empirical studies of Kohlberg's theory of rroral developrnent
and found strikingly similar findings. "Each individual achieved the highest
stage of moral reasoning without skipping any of the earlier stages, and alnnst
no one reverted to a previous stage." In further examining 45 studies, Snarey
found solid support for the universality of Kohlberg's first four stages across
numerous cultures and societies. Less confirmation was found for stages 5 and
6 and it appeared that mature moral principles are held that are distinct from
our own in other cultural groups and social classes.) | Stage
6: UNIVERSALIZING FAITH (35 years and beyond mid-life) This
stage is exceedingly rare. Their enlarged vision of universal community and devotion
to universalizing compassion may offend our parochial perceptions of justice.
Their leadership initiatives often utilize the strategies of nonviolent suffering
and ultimate respect for being, frequently becoming matyrs for their visions.
Such individuals are actualizers of the spirit of an inclusive and fulfilled human
community. They are "contagious" in the sense that they create zones
of liberation from the social, political, economic and ideological shackles we
place and endure on human futurity. These people (e.g. Gandhi, Martin Luther King,
Jr., Mother Teresa, Thomas Merton, Dag Hammerskjold, and Abraham Heschel) have
a special grace that makes them seem more lucid, more simple, and yet somehow
more fully human than the rest of us. They are ready for fellowship with persons
at any of the stages and from any other faith tradition. |
 George
Demont Otis Sonoma Coast (The
materials presented have been adapted by Will Joel Friedman, Ph.D. and reprinted
from the following sources: Erik H. Erikson, Identity:
Youth and Crisis (1968), W. W. Norton & Company, Inc.; Erik H. Erikson,
The Life Cycle Completed (1982), W. W. Norton & Company, Inc.; James
W. Fowler, Stages of Faith (1981), Harper & Row; E.R. Hilgard, R.L.
Atkinson, and R.C. Atkinson; Introduction to PsychologySeventh Edition
(1979), Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, Inc.; Stages of Faith in Psycholgy
Today (November, 1983, pages 56 - 62), an interview of Janies W. Fowler; and
A Question of Morality by John Snarey, Ph.D. in Psychology Today (June,
1987, pages 6, 8)
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