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Poetry For Life
5 I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it,
when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have
loved at all." Alfred Lord Tennison * However
you believe the world to be, that's exactly how the world will present itself
to you. You are always living your life out into your
beliefs about how life is. You'll see something in your life
whenever you begin to believe it strongly enough. It's
not the other way around. In fact, you're creating your own
private hell every day through your attachment to your belief that this,
right here and right now
is not heaven. Chuck Hillig * Skull's
laughter Is a suggestion The remaining Cheshire cat smile ...
A permanent tattoo On the skin of nature Left over repeatedly As a
hint and clue By our long departed Loving Ancestors. See:
Friends and foes Enjoy the same timeless joke. Deathless and birth-less
Joy! Yosy A. Flug * O
my Lord! if I worship you from fear of hell, burn me in
hell. If I worship you from hope of Paradise, bar me from
its gates. But if I worship you for yourself alone, grant
me then the beauty of your Face. Rabia (Rabi'a Al-'Adawiyya) * He
who Doubts from what he sees Will ne'er Believe, do what you Please. He
who replies to words of Doubt Doth put the Light of Knowledge out. A Riddle,
or the Cricket's Cry, Is to Doubt a fit Reply. William Blake, Auguries
of Innocence * Take someone
who doesn't keep score, who's not looking to be richer, or afraid of losing,
who has not the slightest interest even in his own personality: He's free.
Rumi * aughter
Is fear's Greatest dread Its deadly Enemy. No
fear Can survive Heartfelt laughter... Remember, lucky friend: God's
will created All this With a wink, For amusement, Pure joy
And everlasting Delight! Timeless bliss Beyond mind
Impersonal and boundless Is your true, essential Nature. So,
reposing in this remembrance, Cultivate fearlessly Your unconditioned
Inner smile! Yosy A. Flug * Do
not be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All of life is an experiment.
The more experiments you make the better. What if they are a little coarse,
and you may get your coat soiled or torn? What if you do fail, and get
fairly rolled in the dirt once or twice. Up again, you shall never be so afraid
of a tumble." Ralph Waldo Emerson * Peonies
bloom on peony trees. A cat doesn't become a chicken. Tulips are tulips,
not roses. Why can't we realize this true fact? That to be me is great.
I don't have to be anyone but me. I am blooming as I am in my life, just as
a peony blooms on a peony tree. Further, a beautiful peony flower does not
worry about when it will wilt and fall to the ground. It does not compete
with the flower next to it; rather it blooms with its whole self. Sensie
Ogui, Zen Shin Talks, "So What Is There To Realize?".
George Demont Otis Autumn Splender Birds
make great sky circles of their freedom. How do they do it? They fall,
and in falling they are given wings. Jallaludin Rumi * At
the still point of the turning world. Neither flesh nor fleshless; Neither
from nor towards; at the still point, there the dance is, But neither arrest
nor movement. And do not call it fixity; Where past and future are gathered.
Neither movement from not towards Neither ascent nor decline. Except for the
point, the still point There would be no dance, and there is only the dance.
I can only say; there we have been; but I cannot say where And I cannot say,
how long, for that is to place it in time. T. S. Eliot, "Burnt
Norton" * This aloneness
is worth more than a thousand lives. This freedom is worth more than all the
lands on earth. To be one with the truth for just a moment, Is worth more
than the world and life itself. Jallaludin Rumi * Organized
religion All temples, shrines and prayer houses, synagogues,
churches and mosques whether imposing pinnacles of architecture or run-down,
ransacked shacks are merely dojos, spiritual training halls. Prayers,
rituals, ceremonies and observances Designed to remind the believers in awe
The presence and lordship of the almighty. Gymnasiums training devoted soldiers,
Elite troops at the service of the deity
Worshippers of sublime symbols
United by commonly shared fears. But no matter the what the
denomination, Truth/god/self/void is one and all pervading, Knowing all
the innermost secrets and intents From without and from within. In
timeless, ever-present reality Genuine prayer starts When the believer
Leaves the temple behind BOOM! Yosy A. Flug
Refuse to fall down. If you cannot refuse to fall down,
refuse to stay down. If you cannot refuse to stay down, lift your heart
toward heaven, and like a hungry beggar, ask that it be filled, and
it will be filled. You may be pushed down. You may be kept from rising.
But no one can keep you from lifting your heart toward heaven... Clarissa
Pinkola Estés * "Will
you walk into my parlor?" said the spider to the fly; "'Tis the
prettiest little parlor that ever you may spy. The way into my parlor is up
a winding stair, And I have many curious things to show when you are there."
"Oh no, no," said the little fly; "to ask me is in vain, For
who goes up your winding stair can ne'er come down again."... Mary
Howitt, The Spider and the Fly * Oneness
with God A fish cannot drown in water, A bird does
not fall in air. In the fire of creation, God doesn't vanish: The
fire brightens. Each creature God made must live in its own true nature;
How could I resist my nature, That lives for oneness with God? Mechthild
of Magdeburg (1207 - 1297) [English version by Jane Hirshfield] * Sitting
quietly Doing nothing Spring comes And the grass
grows by itself. Zen proverb * Tell
all the Truth, but tell it slant- Success in Circuit lies Too bright for
our infirm Delights the Truth superb surprise As Lightning
to the children eased with explanation kind The Truth must dazzle gradually
or every man be blind. Emily Dickinson, Poem #1129 in The Complete Poems
of Emily Dickinson * God,
whose love and joy are present everywhere, can't come to visit you
unless you aren't there." Angelus Silesius (1624-1677) * Basic
truth is non-denominational non-dogmatic universal. When you go
to the core of the Principle we all are One. Once you
realize the Absolute, relativity is just your playing cards.
Swami Amar Jyoti, In Light of Wisdom.
George Demont Otis Trees and Creek Heaven
has a vast, mindless mind. Human has a mind. The earth embraces everything
with broad virtue. Why does man's mind learn only poisonous thoughts?
Even when the roaring volcano rolls across the earth, do the sun and moon
get angry? Wise men! Learn the virtue of taking off.
If, all day long, you follow the rights and wrongs of the mundane world, you
cultivate a heart attack. He goes on his way, so let him go. You have
your job, so watch only your way. Sometimes, in the quiet
of the night, in your spare time, chant silently. Sometimes, do meditation,
enter into a deep samadhi. All of existence, the sun, the moon, and the stars,
all are my guiding light. All of them are joyful, all of them are precious.
So, always there is a contented laughter." Kyunghoon Sunim, Living
Peace * Unconscious people
read the scriptures like parrots saying Ram, Ram, in their cages. It's
all pretend-knowledge. Read rather, with me, every living moment as prophecy.
Lalla, 14th Century North Indian mystic * This
whole baobab tree of illusion With its roots And its trunk and its fruits
And its sap And its bark And all its branches and leaves and its shade
too All of it The whole complete tree Is contained
In the tiny seed Known as "Me" Yosy A. Flug * ALWAYS
AT HAND Steve Toth Water doesn't struggle
to get where it's going It follows the pull of gravity all the way down
the mountains & torn eagle cries all the way to the ocean As a poem
is what's left after the words are finished trust the earth to bear
something greater than despair In this interconnected world
where nothing is ever going to waste why do my eyes always seem to
be tearing up whatever they look at? If there's a hope for every fear
then why abandon any hope unless you've abandoned the fear completely? I'm
song for as long as I'm singing Memory like human history goes no
further than the present instant The weather says to keep changing
Silence alone hungers in the wild Dance before the fire The moment of
creation is always at hand.
George Demont Otis Corte
Madera Grade
Gathering of Souls Come one, come all
let's share the toast as long as the night prevails; the wine of love
is here drink, drink from the fountain head or in your earthen or emerald
bowls sing and dance with ecstasy forget all fears of morrow the living
moment is now let your spirits out of your terrestrial bin until the
day breaks and night falls again to bring us together for the revelry
of soul like wildebeast gathering at the water hole again! MazHur * I
think, therefore I am mistaken. thoughts come and go, thoughts pass. change
lasts? but the omnipresent, nameless reality/god/truth/love our inexplicable
essence/self remains forever unaffected, whole, boundless and free.
all containing without another, it is what is (and/or isn't), timeless,
void of identity and impersonal. remember, my friend: temporary name and
form, however sublime is merely an ass! Yosy A. Flug * In
stubborn stupidity, I live on alone befriended by trees and herbs. Too
lazy to learn right from wrong, I laugh at myself, ignoring others. Lifting
my bony shanks, I cross the stream, a sack in my hand, blessed by spring weather.
Living thus, I want for nothing, at peace with all the world. Your
finger points to the moon, but the finger is blind until the moon appears.
What connection has moon and finger? Are they separate objects or bound?
This is a question for beginners wrapped in seas of ignorance. Yet one
who looks beyond metaphor knows there is no finger; there is no moon.
Ryoken * The Real
Work It may be that when we no longer know what to do we
have come to our real work, and that when we no longer know
which way to go we have come to our real journey. The mind
that is not baffled is not employed. The impeded stream is the one that sings.
Wendell Berry, Collected Poems * Proverbs
and Songs Antonio Machado (1875 - 1939) English version
by Robert Bly I The eye you see is not an eye because
you see it; it is an eye because it sees you. * Your
spirit is mingled with mine Hallaj (Mansur al-Hallaj) (9th
Century) English version by Bernard Lewis Your
spirit is mingled with mine as wine is mixed with water; whatever touches
you touches me. In all the stations of the soul you are I. * Sufi
meditation song I searched for God among the Christians
and on the cross and found Him not. I went into the ancient temples of idolatry;
no trace of Him was there. I entered the mountain cave of Hira and then
went as far as Qandhar but God I found not. With set purpose I fared to the
summit of Mount Caucasus and found there only 'anqa's habitation. Then
I directed my search to the Kaaba, the resort of old and young; God was not
there even. Turning to philosophy I inquired about him from ibn Sina but
found Him not within his range. Finally, I looked into my own heart and there
I saw Him; He was nowhere else. Jala ad-Din Muhammad
Rumi, Sufi Saint and Poet.
George Demont Otis California
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